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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: my best friend went out with a guy for like 2 weeks and they broke up. about 3 months later he asked me out and i realy liked him so i asked my best friend if she was ok with it and she said yes. We have been dating for almost 2 years now and i really care about him but my best friend started liking him again and she is always flirting with him and talking about him...i dont know what to do anymore its realy hurting me.
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reader, Aunty BimBim +, writes (17 January 2010):
I tend to agree with caring guy, but don't mention that to her, as she will deny it and try harder to take him away.
Next time she starts talking about him ask her what her interest is, let her know that her flirting with him is not what friends do to friends. Just gently let her know you find it annoying and ask her to stop it please.
How she acts after that will let you know if she is a friend or not.
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male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 January 2010):
Tell your best friend to back off, that's what you do. I somehow suspect this is jealousy because you made it work with him and she couldn't.
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