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male
age
30-35,
*mooth Criminal
writes:Just before the new year I went through a really bad phase of my life. I just didn't feel the point of being around, nothing was going right then. Now however I am the happiest person alive (even though my A-level exams are currently going on but they are going awesome).The person who helped me get through everything was my ex girlfriend from 2007 and no I don't go round the street and date everyone she has been my only one so far. Lets call her X. Recently X and myself have been doing everything together its great she makes me so happy. Her company is more than you could ever ask for and her hugs wow its as if I never want them to end she's amazing. X and I are also best friends we tell each other everything there's nothing we don't trust each other on. With the exams taking place I have even offered to walk her home and every times it a massive yes with a smile on. Today I spent afternoon with her "revising" we mostly talked but just being around her makes me all nervous in a good way. She also said that I make her the happiest person inside that no one else does it the same way I do, not that I have a clue how I do it but I'm glad I can do something right. What we have together is the best thing anyone could ever want.The problem though is that I think I am falling for her and I don't know what to do. She has a boyfriend who is a total c**t, he doesn't go to the same college as us so X and him only see each other every now and then. She said that the only reason she stays with him is because its like a family being with him with his mum and dad. I almost want them to break up although I know its harsh to want that of anyone I just think I can do so much better she is like a princess in my eyes. But if they break up then we spend more time together which is worth anything. I would give anything to be with her I just don't know what to do as telling her might shake up our friendship at the moment but then again not so long ago she asked me what did I think about if me and her go out again? and well we just generally play with each other mucking around, nothing bad. Please please someone point me in the right direction I'm clueless on all but one thing...(sorry for dragging on a little bit)
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reader, Slack=D +, writes (16 January 2010):
You have quite a situation here :)Well even though I am no expert at this...I would say that when you find the right moment, yu should tell her.From what you have said it is pretty obvious that she likes you too. And because you have such a good friendship, even if she does not want to date you for the time being, I am pretty sure that this will not come in between your frienship.However in situations like these I am always for telling the person. From what it sounds it could happen to be that she really likes you too and is waiting for you to be the one to bring it up first. :DAnyway good luck with whatever you decide to do and if you ever want to talk feel free to message me :)Hope it turns out as you want it to x
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