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*artles22
writes:I'm 17 and have had my first proper girlfriend for 2 weeks now. I've got to second base with girls before but have never actually had my penis properly touched, and my girlfriend has jerked me off twice. The first time she had been rubbing my penis over my pants for a while, and when she actually went skin-to-skin I didn't last very long at all.Then yesterday we were making out, and grinding and dry humping a bit in our pyjamas, and she started rubbing my penis really sensitively on the head over my pants and i couldn't help but ejaculate.She doesn't seem to react to it in a weird way but I'm worried this will happen every time and start affecting things,Can anyone suggest anything or give me some advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 April 2010): Thanks so far guys,Don't worry mike, I do give her something in return.I feel much calmer about it all now.
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reader, mikehimself  +, writes (15 April 2010):
Totally normal. I imagine every single guy went through the same thing. Many of the previous posts should be helpful.
I'll just add, why does the fun need to stop just because you came? So, clean up a bit, cuddles, show her how much you appreciate her, and work your way to giving her some physical pleasure in return. You'll be ready to go again in no time, and be able to last a lot longer.
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reader, bartles22 +, writes (13 April 2010):
bartles22 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think the masturbation might work as I masturbated the night before the second time and when we were making out and when I gave her some pleasure my penis didn't react as much to it, however it was the morning after where it went off quickly, so I'll try that again
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reader, Universe Man  +, writes (13 April 2010):
Try masturbating right before you're going to meet up with her.
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reader, clairabella +, writes (13 April 2010):
 One in three people are like this on their first sexual or foreplay experiences, so it isn't abnormal and nothing to worry about. I have had sexual experiences with men, ad some haven't lasted as long as they haven't expcted to, but it is a compliment to a girl because it shows yo are really attracted to them. A way to stop you from coming so quickly is to maybe play with her for a while, which will turn you on yet you can still last a little longer because you aren't being touched, it will also turn her on and show you're interested in her needs as well.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): hi 17 yr old person this is normal for a guy your age try thinking about something else while still havin ur mind on ur GF i remember my 1st time with my ex when we were young only had to touch it i was so nervous that it would just cum out and there again she never acted strange or thought it was wierd in the end when we got down to it i just thought about the local darby that was going on the day after and i lasted longer hope this helps
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 April 2010):
It'll get better as you become more used to it. Every time you think it might happen, maybe just get her to stop for a few moments. And please make sure you're careful about protection.
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