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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I have been dating a man for a while and then we decided to move in together. We have now been living together for 3 years. We have often talked about marriage but never really committed. I really didn't want marriage right away, and I think he knew that. Now I am ready and we started talking about it again. When he realized that I was really serious and ready he started avoiding the issue. It turns out that we can't get married because he is still legally married to another woman. How is this possible? How does someone keep that a secret? When I started pushing the issue and insisting he finalize his divorce or move on, he agreed. Then I started getting lame excuses as to why it was taking so long. Recently we agreed upon a date. Either he would be divorced or he would have to leave by this date. He then presented me with papers he forged. I want to run like hell but we have a child together and I am scared. Please someone give me some advice. Thanks
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 You have two options, to stay or leave?
Which is more unpalatable ?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (14 April 2010):
 A liar, a deceiver, and now a forger. What next?
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Listen to your instinct. If your gut tells you to run like hell, do it. Who knows what else he's hiding from you?
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (14 April 2010):
Listen to your instinct. If your gut tells you to run like hell, do it. Who knows what else he's hiding from you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): Well, you've only had a child by this man. Cut your losses short and dump him to the curb. He is a con man. You will rejoice when you look back on your decision in the distant future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): He's either a coward or a liar... neither are good... say "bye bye" to this boy man... he needs to grow up.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 I am not worried about him still being with her. The fact he forged the papers and showed it to you and thought he could fool you and the court showed what kind of character he is. I would go deeper into his issues, understand everything about his past, before making a conclusion that he really is a bad guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): if he loves you why would he keep such a secret? personally i would have ditched him if he kept it from me, is he still with the person, if so.. he's bad news.
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