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writes:i recently broke up with my boyfriend we were together for quite awhile, the reason i broke up with him is because he never wanted to spend time together he (lived with me)all he did was go to work and as soon as he was finished he went to his friends house until 430 in the morning came home slept and then went to bed while i was just sitting there, no sex mind you he was too tired he wasted all his energy playing the game, when he woke up in the morning he would rest for 30 minutes and then would start getting dressed to head to his friends house to play again! i just felt neglected you know!! we both talked about having a family and having a god future together and now i ended it! when i ended it he acted happy, he said i am free at last can you believe that! he is on my phone plan and i texted him to tell him that i need him to pay the money to disconnect the line, he said he would and then we started exchanging nasty messages! i said hurtful things to him that i did not mean and he said the same, things like he is happy that it is over and that he did not know what he saw in me that i was ugly and all his friends thought and who ever i get into a relationship with he does not know what thy will see in me!i bought some stuff for him when we were together, he said thank you for the stuff, b****, lol! can you believe that! do you think he did that because he is hurt because i ended things or that he meant that?
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Wow what a turd, any ways of course hes hurt, its sounds like he has a video game addiction and hes not thinking rationally, why is he on your phone plan he should have his own plan what kind of man is he it sounds like your mor eof a mother to him then a GF.
Any way of course he doesnt think your ugly hes just angry and lashing out hes hurt so he wants to hurt you. Thats why people need God and jesus you wouldnt have all these problems.
Heres some advice dont get into nasty arguements with him, no matter what he says just tell him you love him but you cant be with him because hes not the one for you, then get saved pray and get your phone money back.
Im sure your a remarkable girl in time you will find the man that makes you feel such
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): If you told him hurtful stuff and he told you hurtful stuff...then that sounds about normal in breaking up. He sounds immature and he doesn't want you in his life. He'll prolly regret that later but atm he just doesn't care. Technically speaking you are free as well. You can find someone that loves you back and can share time with each other. Good luck and hope you recover fast.
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