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Was she a virgin?

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Question - (13 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, *hortnsneaky writes:

Last year, I slept with this girl once, which was supposedly both of our first times. Although, I never saw any blood from her(which I've always heard indicates her "deblossoming") and she seemed to be not in pain during. She was black, as I am white, and I've heard that a black guy's schlong is longer than a white guy's, so I wonder if that has anything to do with her "situation."

As a side note, she lied to me constantly and hid most of her life from me. That's a big reason why I dumped her. So was she a virgin?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

I didn't bleed when i lost my virginity

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (13 April 2010):

Not My Name agony auntNo, blood is not always an indication of virginity. Some girls can break their hymen from other activities (gymnastics, horse riding, etc) long before having sex and consequently wont bleed, ... others can bleed long after losing their virginty. It is not a reliable indicator.

BTW - Length is irrelevant too, ..it is the girth/width of it that makes the difference.

If you have dumped her for other reasons tho, what does it matter wether she was or not?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

some girls don't bleed during sex because the hymen breaks before. so she could have been.

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