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What does it mean when my husband says "take what you can get"?

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Question - (13 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

me and my huddy been together for 7years and got wed when we make 4 1/2 years .our relationship been ok i think but lately it feel like he is not in love with me .i can not tell him how i feel about everything don't even talk about sex. he said i know he come fast so i just need to take what i can get.what do that mean?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

It is all fine. do not worry about it. he loves you and he cares so forget the thought that you are having.

marriage is all about trust. trust him.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

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we are 26 years old what pillcan he take and he do not watch sex tape

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

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well he do not like to talk about anything he do.he is not at home right now his phone is off.it been off all day.he do this every time we have a misunderstanding.how can i get him to talk to me

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

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well he do not like to talk about anything he do.he is not at home right now his phone is off.it been off all day.he do this every time we have a misunderstanding.how can i get him to talk to me

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (13 April 2010):

Not My Name agony auntSounds to me like he is saying that is all he can last, that is all you can get, like it or lump it, nothing else on offer, that is all your gunna get, ... so might as well take it and no point complaining about it.

There are techniques he can work on to delay ejaculation, as well as pills he could take, desensitizing creams, etc, but you are both going to have to be a bit more open in discussing your sex life if you also want to discuss things you can try to make it more satisfying.

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