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She keeps bringing up the past

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Question - (13 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i am 30 years old married to my beautiful wife for the last 7 years and just wanted to know are all women the same my wife keeps bringing up the past about when we first met i can say this on here because i don't know anyone on here she keeps accusising me of cheating when we first met. we have a child together which i love to bits. any way she went to the doctors and the doctor or should i say nurse told her the results of some tests she had done 10 years ago and every time she has something wrong with her and she has to go to see the doctor i get accused of sleeping with some one else is this normal i can honestly say that i have never cheated on my wife even though some times she never comes near me i may look but beleive me she is good in the bedroom. to be honest it is getting to a stage now where i just want a quite and simple life but it feels like we are going round in circles always having the past brouht up any ideas what i can do i love this women but if she keeps going on like this it is making us drift apart i have told her that i have not cheated those men that do cheat on there partners are a*holes please please help me i dunno what to do being a man it is not a subject you talk to with your mates having a beer is it.

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A male reader, Universe Man United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

I agree with raiders, it sounds to me like maybe she cheated on you. The girls I've been with who were the most concerned about me being unfaithful were themselves the least faithful to me.

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A female reader, Carrot2000 United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

Carrot2000 agony auntNo, all women aren't like that. Has your wife been evaluated for OCD? Her paranoia suggests that there is a lot more going on with her.

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A female reader, raiders United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

raiders agony auntit might be her own insecurities, she might have cheated and because she knows it can be done and she didn't get caught might think you did the same. Turn the tables on her.

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