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writes:I met my Fiance when i was 13 yrs old and we dated on and off for 7 to 8 yrs but were getting married next july....i looked on his facebook just to tell him i miss him because i live 20 exits away from him. And i see girls asking him how's his new son and when is he going to be born. I was upset of course, and i confronted him about it and he said for me to stop tripping its not what it seems. So i threaten to not marry or speak to him ever and he told him he got someone pregnant. And she is 6months and i feel so hurt. Should i continue to be his fiance or call this thing off?
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (13 April 2010):
 Male anonymous, you ain't said nuthin' but the truth. Folks on Facebook know more about what's going on with your man than you do. Why would you even consider staying with him? You've known him for nearly half your life, but your life is far from over. Dump his ass, find someone who doesn't live 20 exits away, and don't look back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Some random girls on facebook know he is a baby daddy, and don't even think they need to keep it a secret, but you don't know? And you're engaged to him? And now you're WONDERING whether to go ahead and marry him?? Girl, I don't even know what to say. There is a whole world of love and respect out there that this man is never going to be able to show you. I wonder if you even know what a good man is. Dump him and go look for one.
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reader, rambini  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 he has cheated and got the other girl pregnant, what other information can you possibly need? of course you should end it, i dont see any other options, he has lied, cheated and os fathering someone elses child???
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 April 2010):
Call it off. You now know who he really is. He's that young guy you saw as your knight all those years ago. He's a cheat and he's not got another girl pregnant, which means that you will never again be the important one in his life. And on top of that, he told you to stop 'tripping' and tried to lie. End it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): he should've told you. if he couldn't even have the guts to tell you, then get out of there. isn't that what a relationship is based on? trust.don't hold onto something because you want it to be like you imagined. nothing ever is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): sorry hun, but if he hid this from you what else has he hidden? Dump him! good luck
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 It's not the childhood romance you envisioned. Call it off.
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