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I am a lesbian, how can I get my friend to like me back?

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Question - (13 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 26-29, *ougatxxx writes:

Ok so I like this girl well she is actually a friend and I fancy her and have done for the last few months so I told her. not really my best idea but she was cool with it. Its just am not sure what her sexuality is because she has never said am staight so you can see my problem but I really like her she is always on my mind contently and I just can stop thinking about her but is it possibly to get her too like me back? If you could give suggestions on maybe how too try it would be helpful. thanks guys :) x

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

Well you can't make someone gay if they aren't. That must be her orientation in order for you to have her like you in that way back

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A male reader, Heartbroken in love United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

Well you can't make someone gay if they aren't. That must be her orientation in order for you to have her like you in that way back

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A female reader, sweetspicy United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

sweetspicy agony auntTelling her how you feel about her was the right way to go, she might just be taking her time to feel you out maybe a little curious about you and a little scared of what other people would say if she were to be with you. Try talking more with her about her feelings being straight, Bi, or lesbian. I have a feeling the girl on girl thing is new to her everyday life and might be a little taken in by this. She is your friend so even if you dont know right this second how she feels you will eventually.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntYou can't GET her to like you, she either does or she doesn't. Try being a friend first, otherwise you'll just scare her off.

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A female reader, ShredBetty United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

I would just ask her, if your good friends and as you said she already doesn't mind that you fancy her, just talk to her about your feelings. At least that way you can get a straight answer from the source! =)

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