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Will it hurt?

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Question - (13 April 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

If ive been 'fingered' quite a fair few times over the last few years, will it still hurt having sex for the first time?

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A female reader, ~sara~ United States +, writes (14 April 2010):

Well it just depends on your body. The first time I had sex it hurt just when he stuck it inside me, but he was gentle and didn't hurt me at all while we were having sex. That's just me though and all girls are different so the only way you will know for sure is if you actually have sex. Some girls it doesn't really hurt and some girls it does. It helps though if the guy is gentle and you do it in a position you are comfortable with. Missionary is great for your first time. Even though sex didn't hurt me the first time when we started trying new positions some of them hurt me at first. It honestly just depends on your body.

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A female reader, SeXylOvE12 United States +, writes (14 April 2010):

SeXylOvE12 agony auntDo you know if you have torn your hymen yet? If you haven't then it might hurt a bit and bleed a little.

Every girl is different. The first time i had sex my bf was over 7 inches and it didn't hurt for me at all, just felt a little uncomfortable.

Ask him to take it slow and go at your pace. Missionary is probably the best position for your first time.

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