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Involved with daughter's father again but he can be very overpowering!

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Question - (13 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2010)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I am a 38 year old mother of a 16 year old daughter. My daughter's father is now one of the richest people in our state even though is just a couple of years older than me. We were never married but he acknowledged our daughter and has met his financial responsibilities to her even though with his businesses, he is away a lot.

He and I found ourselves in bed together one night and have sort of resumed our relationship after all these years. I am sort of worried about him getting more closely involved with our daughter and with my family and friends. He's charming but he has a way of covering people and taking over their lives without them even realizing it. We get along okay because I have never gone against him in any way or disobeyed him.

He's never abused me or even raised his voice to me, but one night we were out and he got annoyed at me so he called his driver and had the driver take me home. When he gets angry, he can be emotionally cruel. I find myself waiting for the storm to blow over. What should I do?

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony aunt"I've been rich and I've been poor, rich is better."

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010):

As the Beatles would say "money can't buy me love"

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010):

I agree with Q emotional abuse causes just as much if not more damage than physical abuse. This man man likes to be in control, I can tell you now, if he had 'his' driver take me home because he was annoyed with me, there wouldn't be another date.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 April 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntIs he single?

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