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writes:HiI started chatting to a man over the internet about 3 months ago, now all of a sudden he has stop communicating with me.We usually have some form of contact at least every day or every second day either by phone,text or email. But its been two weeks and I have heard nothing.Last time we chatted everything seem normal.I am worried I have hurt or offended him in some way Or I am also worried he just got bored with me and decided to stop talking to me.I am not sure what to do, should I text him or just wait for him?
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reader, Sanita  +, writes (27 April 2010):
I have going through the same thing right now. I met this guy on a very prominenet dating site a few months ago. We clicked instantly, we used to email and IM each other on yahoo messanger very often. We even made plans about us taking turns to visit each other. He lives in the States and i live in Jamaica.
All of our plans came to an halt when he got deployed to Iraq in late January, he should have spent two weeks but he ended up staying for a month. Nevertheless, we still kept in contact that is whenever he could.
He went back to the State in late Feb 2010. I called him on his phone on the 1st and 2nd of March, he told me how much he missed me and that he thought about me everday. When i contacted him on the 3rd of March he ignored my calls and he has been doing this up to today. I have not heard from him in 2 months. So i have decided to move on with my life, its hard but i'm getting over him, and i know you will get over this guy too, it will all get better in time-Leonia Lewis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2010): I'm going through the same thing with this guy i met an a very prominent dating site. I live in Jamaica and he lives in the States, he's in the US Air Forces Security Forces. Initially we were in separable, we used to talk a lot, but everything changed when he was deployed to Iraq, we made plans for him to come and visit me and my family here in Ja but when he returned from the war in late Feb of this year he just stopped talking to me. I spoke to him twice on the phone when he came back and everyhting seemed fine , he told about how much he missed me and he couldn't stop thinking about me when he was at war, etc, but then after that he just stopped emailing, IMing me- he shut down all communication with me. I have not heard from him in 2 months. Until this day i have not heard from him, he has not responded to my emails, phone calls, nothing. It hurts but, thats life so the only thing i can do is move on. And i have been trying to move on with my life.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 April 2010):
I doubt it was anything you did. He probably found someone else. This is a good indication that he was out to use you, so maybe it's for the best.
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reader, pinktopaz  +, writes (13 April 2010):
Sounds like unless he's in the hospital in a coma, he lost interest or another girl came along. Don't waste a text message on him, if he can't be bothered by you why should you be bothered by him?
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