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She wants me to introduce her to another guy, ... but I am attracted to her. Should I do it or not?

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Question - (13 April 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A male Canada age 30-35, *21833 writes:

ok my name is bob Im still in highschool. I really like this girl friend of mine. she doesn't know it. she told me she really likes this guy who happens to be a friend of mine but she doesn't know him but she really wants to. she's asking me to introduce them two. She's very cute and if she goes after the guy I'm pretty sure he ll like her back. Should I help her? :/ what should I do?! thx a bunchh. ):

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A female reader, rambini United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

rambini agony aunti think you should be honest with the girl, say to her that you really like her, and the possibility of introducing her to another guy made you realise how much you like her, and that you would really like to spend some time with her/take her out. see what she says, if she lets you down then be a man and introduce her to the other bloke, if you care about her then im sure you want her to be happy, and if that cant be with you then it will have to be with someone else and she will value your honesty and integrity and keeping her as a close friend is better than nothing at all

best of luck x

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A female reader, complicated. (: United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

Well the best thing to do in this case is to go for it.

Don't be afraid of possibly getting rejected, You may regret introducing her to your friend, Because they both could get really close and you would of lost your chance.

Before introducing her to this other guy, You should express your feelings to her, and tell her the truth and how you can't let her go.

Girls love confidence in a guy.

Go for it :D xx

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A female reader, complicated. (: United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

Well the best thing to do in this case is to go for it.

Don't be afraid of possibly getting rejected, You may regret introducing her to your friend, Because they both could get really close and you would of lost your chance.

Before introducing her to this other guy, You should express your feelings to her, and tell her the truth and how you can't let her go.

Girls love confidence in a guy.

Go for it :D xx

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

If i were you I'd tell her how you feel before you introduce her to him.. but i would still introduce them, to be the maturer person.

At least then if she knows how you feel, she won't want to hurt you by persuing him and if she does, you know she's not worth it. Also tell your friend, so he doesn't hurt you either.

Your only young anyway, I've known plenty of friends go out together and then go out with their friends!

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