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We're broke up for the last year, but he still wants to hurt my feelings.

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Question - (13 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i just broke up with my boyfriend for a year, we share a phone line so i texted him and i told him that he needs to disconnect the line, he said he might! then 3 minutes later he sent me a text saying that i look ugly and that his friends used to say why he is with me, that he never knew what he saw in me and that the next guy he does not know what he will see in me, why is he trying to hurt me like this? trying to make me feel less about my self?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

Because some people are just immature.

Don't let him hurt you. If he keeps doing this every time you make contact even if its to sort things out then best to keep texting.calling to bare minimum. Then as soon as everything has been settled (phone line, money, kids, dog whatever) don't speak to him again.

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A female reader, rambini United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

rambini agony auntbecause he is an insecure and immature child who cannot accept the fact that you are not crying and begging him to come back. just keep your chin up, your head held high and remember tht you are beautiful, he is just too dumb and conceited to see it. xx

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

Because he's a bitter loser.

He knows you've probably moved on and he's not found anyone new.

He's a bully. But the good news is, you're not with him any more.

Just ignore everything he says and be happy.

Good Luck!! xx

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