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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:I feel so betrayed right now. My best friend is a guy {lets call him S} and we have been best friends for a while. So this year we kissed once or twice and that was it. A couple days ago me, S, his cousin J, and a bunch of other girls and guys went to the movies. Nothing happened but I didn't really talk to him, like I didn't mean it. When I got home he IMed me and asked me why I didn't talk to him that much that day. I told him that I didn't mean it. We had this whole discussion about how we are to never do things again because we don't want to risk out friendship. {Plus I like someone now} and then he like blew everything out of proportion and ended our conversation by saying " I don't wanna talk to you anymore."Then his cousin J IMed me and I told him that is S told him to talk to me don't. He then proceeded to say that he had no idea what I was taking about. We got talking about S and he told me a few things. HE said that he doesn't get why S always says I am a bitch to him when I seem like a nice person. He thought it was because I didn't want to fool around with him anymore. He said that S was talking to him and said that I was "easy" . My own best friend said that I was easy. I am so hurt. I snapped right there and out of frustration I deleted him as a friend on face book, blocked him on aim, and ignore him in school. It just doesn't feel right. What do I do??Thanks for taking the time to read this!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (13 April 2010):
Basically, he couldn't take being hurt a bit, so took it out on you. Just leave him to stew. You've done nothing wrong, so if he wants your attention, he can come back. Don't take it personally. It's just the way some young men handle pain.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): Maybe his cousin likes you and is trying to twist things!
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