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I feel guilty about what I watched.

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Question - (13 April 2010) 6 Answers - (Newest, 18 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Okay so this sounds really stupid but my boyfriend asked me to watch some porn so I did because he asked me to and I guess I wanted to know what all the fuss is about. Ive watched it on about 4 different occasions and I always delete my browsing history afterwards but I'm worried that my dad knows because he'll go mad if he finds out.

We was on about my computer and how it's mine cuz I paid for it and he went "well don't worry I know EVERYTHING you do" so its made me feel worried.

I know that my computer is connected through a router so I can get internet on my computer so I'm guessing he can see what I do.

Can someone please tell me if theres anything I can do to permanently remove these sites so my dad can't see them.

I don't mind how long it takes I just need a way.

Thanks

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A female reader, Gwenabee United Kingdom +, writes (18 April 2010):

Gwenabee agony auntIf you are using Google Chrome, in the top right corner click the tools button - new incognito window. This will not be stored.

Also; your dad may have just been joking around in all fairness, try not to worry yourself about it.

And don't feel guilty about watching porn, there's nothing shameful about it, some people like it, some people don't. I do, and me and my boyfriend have fun recommending things to eachother. I also find it a good source of inspiration, the look on my boyfriends face when I suddenly do something all porn-star like is priceless!!

Don't fret too much about it sweetie :) xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (16 April 2010):

deleting your browser history is not the 100% way of making sure no one finds out.

download and install a program called ccleaner, its free, run then scan and it removes all the hidden stuff :)

also when watching videos in your browser etc.. the flash players used to display these videos will often collect data of the sites you have visited.

best way hide that is to delete the data is collects, to do that go to c drive, then documents and settings, then click the folder with your user name or if its default it might be "1" or "allusers", then click application data and then click macromedia and then click flash player,some of the folders in there will hold folder names that might reveal the names of sites you have visited, just delete them.

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A male reader, pipsta Australia +, writes (13 April 2010):

You can go into control panel internet connections and delete 'files', 'cookies' and 'history'. this may work unless there is a tracker through the router.

If he hasn't had a go at you about it yet though, unless he is strict or religious, pornography probably doesn't affect him, because (i don't want to make you sick) he probably watches it himself. we are all human and im sure he'll understand that at your age you are curious about sex and sexuality.

best of luck x

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A male reader, bartles22 United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

also, if you're using the latest version of internet explorer, go to Tools Delete Browsing History Delete All.

For Mozilla Firefox, go ToolsClear Private Data.

Then he won't be able to see anything.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010):

Deleting your browser history is all you can do. Your dad is probably bluffing, but if he knows, he obviously doesn't care all that much. Don't go back, and there won't be any more evidence.

That said, if you want to look at porn, you should look at porn.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

Unless your dad is some kind of computer programmer, I very much doubt that he knows what you have been looking at as long as you have deleted your history.

It's likely he said he knows what you get up to just to scare you.

Don't go on sites that you aren't supposed to be on again and everything will be fine.

Good Luck!! xx

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