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36-40,
*ridgette22
writes:Recently I cheated on my boyfriend. I gave his brother a blow job and have had sex with his brother at least 10 times since. I feel really bad because I like both of them but I don't want to tell my boyfriend what should I do.
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reader, rambini  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 you should end it with your bf and his brother and move on from them both. you cannot love your bf or you would see how abhorrent it is to even consider sleeping with his brother. You cannot love the brother as if you did you would already have dumped the bf. you are using them both and you could be the cause of a massive family rift which is not something you want to be responsible for. you need to wake up and see how serious this is. it isnt a game and you should walk away before anyone gets more hurt.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (13 April 2010):
Dump your boyfriend and lave both men in the past. For two reasons. 1 - if this comes out (and it very well might), you will look seriously bad. 2 - If you have cheated this much, then you can't really love your boyfriend. End it
End it and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): You know the situation is not sustainable - you need to remove yourself from the 'family' and stop cheating on the brothers. You are being selfish and if they found out you risk brothers being very hurt and damaged as a family unit. Ok - they are cheating but you have no right to knowingly do that. Step away from what is actually a very unhealthy situations.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2010): This won't stay secret forever regardless of whether you spill the beans or not.
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (13 April 2010):
 If the situation were reversed -- if he'd had sex with your sister 10 times, would you want to know? Would you still want to be with him? Would you want to know?
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