A
female
age
30-35,
*atiemariex3
writes: Okay so I need some serious advice :( My ex boyfriend broke up with me after we got into a little arguement and he started dating this girl shortly afterwards. I really liked my ex but everybody said he was a player and stuff, so now I got over him and I am dating a new guy and now my ex wants me back. He called me and said its hard to date her when hes in love with me still and I have till tomorrow to think about what Im going to do. Do you think I should take him back?I really liked my ex and i waited for him to come back and now im not completely sure if i want to. its not fair to my new guy. My new guy is a good guy and he is really sweet and stuff and my ex you could say was kinda bipolar when we were dating and stuff and i waited for him to come back for a long time and idk what to do now. :( :( :( help!
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (14 April 2010):
Leave your player ex in the past. The problem with a lot of young women (and some young men) is that they are attracted to the bad boy/girl type. But look at the facts. This is a guy who broke up with you over a little argument, and didn't really treat you all that well. All your friends say he is a player. Also, you say he's dating another girl, but is already coming back to you. This is a guy who doesn't know what he wants. How long until he dumps you and goes back to her, or with someone else?
Stick with the new guy and let the bad boy go.
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