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Am I gay because I sometimes have weird fantasies?

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Question - (13 April 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 28 June 2010)
A male United Kingdom age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Basically im 14 and not sure if im straight, bi, whatever. I know that i am attracted to girls and have even had occasioinal girlfriends.

when i have masturbated i've only ever used straight porn

the thing is I dont get at all hard from gay porn but i feel interested in watching it. sometimes i feel like i am looking at the man and not the woman and have even had some crazy gay fantasies, as i said i dont get sexually excited whatsoever but somehow am inclined to watch gay things,

i dont understand

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A male reader, pod123 Australia +, writes (28 June 2010):

pod123 agony auntim bi and went through basically the same thing as u are. only i watch gay porn and fantasize about gay stuff but i really like this girl at school and have had other girlfriends b4 as well. u'll figure it out. :)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2010):

Your normal. If you act on it than you would be gay but if don't act your fine. I know from personal experience.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010):

This is verified as being by the original poster of the question

phew :) nice to hear

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A male reader, Universe Man United States +, writes (13 April 2010):

It's probably just a matter of looking to the men for sexual inspiration, to show you how to be a more sexual being. I think it's clear you're straight, but if you're not, hey there's a whole wide world out there.

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A female reader, clairabella United Kingdom +, writes (13 April 2010):

clairabella agony auntDon't worry about it, everyone goes through a stage where they think about the same sex, it is only natural, and as you are young your going to wonder what the same sex looks like as all males are different. No one can help what their brain is thinking and it is totally normal to be curious, even though you are straight you can still have these thoughts without being socially classed as gay. I hope this advice helps. x

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