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anonymous
writes:My boyfriend has very low self confidence. He's always putting himself down. Calling himself ugly. He's also very inexperienced sexually. These are all huge turn offs. I usually go for the confident guys that aren't scared to put there hands down my pants. Catch my drift? I'm a girl by the way. And I'm wondering if he'll ever grow apair and make a move. If not I'm thinking this isn't gonna work out. But then he's such a good guy. . . I'm hoplessly confused. Help, any?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2010): Wait long enough and he'll reach down your pants.. Some guys want to respect you and need to know that you're horny. Tell him you want him to be in control and you want him to be more aggressive and not scared to be himself.
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reader, df30 +, writes (14 April 2010):
Hes such a good guy but you want him to shove his hands down your pants, i understand the whole confidence thing but he sounds like a modest guy and my guess is he treats you like a lady (being really nice, opening doors, that sorta thing) I don't think you should fault him for treating you with respect i know im always trying to be sweet and put my gf needs before my own she loves it why should he be penelized for not "reaching down your pants"? hes probably just takin it slow and making sure you want him. Show him you want him and hell adjust... believe me youll be pullin his hands out of your pants.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (14 April 2010):
 Take a deep breath....and relax. :)
Now, you want him to be confident? Then make him feel like it! Tell him how good looking he is...all of the time....even out in public. Stare at him (the kind stare that says "your soooo sexy) Make him think he is the hottest guy in the world.
As for sex....grab his hand and put it down your pants....and then let him know how good it feels....be bold with him and he should lose his shyness and gain some confidence.
Good Luck!
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