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female
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*eachblossom
writes:I have a problem. I was with a man on and off for about 5 years, and he was different that any man I've met before or since then. We broke up officially a few months ago, actually I broke up with him, and he is now dating someone else. I am happy for him, although I hate the idea of him with someone else. I want to be happy and dating as well...but I find myself comparing every man I meet to him! I need to know how to stop doing this. Maybe I just haven't met the right man who can interest me like he did, or maybe I'm still healing from the break-up, but I just can't seem to get my mind off of him. I truly believe that we were both better suited for other people, and I know that we broke up for good reasons...but why can't I stop comparing him to new men that I meet?
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (31 March 2009):
I've been through this before I think maybe u compare other guys to him because u were with him so long. U guys had a bond and ur just use to him. When u find someone u really really like u will except him and c all the reasons why ur not with ur ex anymore. Goodluck
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