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writes:I've heard it's possible, but that it doesn't happen very often because it's hard to stimulate the clitoral complex this way. I've still never had sex, though I've orgasmed before through fingering, but I'm just wondering, are fingering and oral sex basically the only ways a girl can orgasm? I guess it would be nice if you're a woman who actually has reached orgasm during vaginal intercourse, and aren't shy about speaking up, if you could say so. I'm just kind of interested to see how often it actually happens.
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reader, No watered down advice here! +, writes (27 December 2010):
 It's hard for me but if the man has a high sex drive and can go for a long period then it can happen. And ORAL takes skills in order to have an orgasm! Fingering is great! So…I can see you truly enjoying yourself on that! Vaginal Orgasms are possible with a caring partner.
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reader, OOHEMILY90 +, writes (24 August 2010):
The only way I can receive an orgasm through vaginal intercourse is when I'm either on top or when he's on top but my legs are placed on his shoulders so he can reach my g-spot.Oh yes and from backentry while laying on my stomach.So it's possible just depending on your mood and if he knows what he's doing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 April 2009): If she's on top. She has more control with her clitoris to help get going. If I am on top I always always have a orgasm. And I've been with him for 7 years. I also think that a certain amount of masturbating helps you know where your buttons are what needs to be pushed.Keep experiementing. sex is supposed to be fun
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (1 April 2009):
 It is highly possible to help most any woman orgasm just with hands (fingers). Adding tongue and lips must raise the probability to about 95 percent or better, in my opinion. It just takes some degree of attraction toward the man, and quite a bit of experience or knowledge on his part.
The man usually must also be willing and able to do what is necessary, and the woman must feel very comfortable and somewhat uninhibited. After one or more orgasms are achieved via skilled cunnilingus and possibly G-spot massage, then orgasm from intercourse may prove easily attainable.
Here's the lowdown. Most men never have a clue how to really please a woman. They stick it in, pump a little, get-off and they think that you are happy. That is folly, and I've tried to help educate here (check the archives).
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (1 April 2009):
 Less than 25% of women can come by vaginal penetration alone, and than isn't about your performance, it's about the way a woman is hardwired. The fact is, most women, 75%, need further stimulation of the clitoris in order to achieve orgasm. And less than 1% can achieve an orgasm by nipple stimulation all by itself. I probably would never leave the house again...
If you think that this is difficult for you to figure out, you can imagine how hard it is for women to be comfortable enough to let go and achieve an orgasm at all, considering what a huge range of responses there are! I strongly suspect that even in vaginal sex, the 'pubis mons' and therefore, the clitoris is sensitive enough to receive enough stimulation along WITH vaginal sex in order to trigger the response.
The main concern is having a partner in life who is willing to go the distance in order for the both of you to be satisfied! It's not how you get there, just get there!!! There's no shame in using hands while being penetrated, and one orgasm is just as good as the other, or the other 3 or 4... LOL!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): It's very possible to orgasm like that every time, but it takes practice and getting to know your partner. You need SOME stimulation of the clitoris, but that doesn't mean you can't do it before, ie have lengthy foreplay. Or, like the poster below says, playing with yourself during sex.
I've found that the partner I've been with the longest, and love the most, and trust the most, and have had the most sex with, is the one I am having the best sex with now...
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reader, bobbles32 +, writes (31 March 2009):
 I orgasm just about every time I have vaginal intercourse with my boyfriend. But he's the first one who could ever make me orgasm like this.
Sometimes I play with my own clit during the action to send me over the edge. Good luck!
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