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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am just turning a teen and all my mates are snogging their boyfriends and not only have I not yet kissed a boy but I am also being teased for being frigid.help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): Awwww I know what you're going through, I was like that at your age too. You just gotta ignore what they're saying and not let it effect you. Wait for the right guy to come along, whenever that may be :)
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 Of course you are not frigid! At your age, following the crowd just to please them isn't the wisest of things to do. The Mom in me wants to ask "And if everyone else jumped off a cliff, would you do it too?"...
You should just wait until you find the right guy and it feels natural for you - and even if that takes a few more years, it's your business, not theirs! You are young and don't have to be in such a hurry. Don't be pressured or rush into something just to prove someone else is wrong in their assumptions. They really want you to being doing the same thing as they are because it validates how they are behaving... And I wouldn't call them names - like slut or tease - just because they are 'faster' than you are... because name calling is wrong, and it would make you just as mean as they are. No, I would not sink to the same level as your friends...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 March 2009):
 Better to be an ice princess waiting for prince charming than to be a slut who does it with all stable boys.
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