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writes:Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's been about a week and I have left him alone, no phone calls no nothing... I miss him a lot. I love him but I need to show him that I'm not playing games.Recently he saw one of my good friends and told her that we don't talk any more... that I "don't understand that he doesn't wanna be tied down and make his money". He quickly explained to her that we acted like we were going out and it was just the title that I wanted so bad (bf/gf). He also text me not too long ago telling me he misses me but never text again...ugh!! I just don't know what to do. Should I continue on like this and move on with my life and wait to see if maybe he will come back to me or should I try to fix things with him and even though he doesn't wanna be bf/gf just accept it for wat it is?? I'm totally confused and I need some advice.!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you !! this helps alot
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 March 2009):
Yep, he's all talk when it comes to looking good to someone isn't he.
"Oh no, it was just her problem, I couldn't possibly have been at fault and deserved to be dumped. I'm completely the victim in this."
Of course he is going to make you out to be the villain.
Ignore him and move on. If he cared and wanted to be with you then he would have made effort and would be wanting to shout your love from the rooftops, not just keep it casual.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): Sweetheart, he sounds like a big old waste of time. He is not being clear with you, he's not treating you with the respect you deserve and he's belittling the genuine feelings you have for him...Is this really someone you want to be with??? He sounds like a totally immature, self-absorbed, shallow person. Set him free to make money and move on!
I've been in the same place you are in - Where you feel like you have so much invested and you really care about someone- but trust me - be patient and hold out for a really great guy. Love yourself enough to maintain the highest standard and someday a great guy will come along and respect you all the more for it!
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