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writes:Hi,i am a 25 year old dating a 43 year old man, the relationship is comfortable, but i cannot tell if it is too comfortable. Me and me husband have sex every night and we both say we enjoy it, but i am starting to think my husband is getting boared. he Always shows interest in younger girls with blonde hair, nice figure ( you know common skank) he knows a lot of young women and always toots at the ones he does knows when we are in the car.but recently i have been trying my darndest to impress him and he doesn't notice, not only this he dissapeears for 1 hour sometimes more on a ragular basis. i do everything for him, treat him, look after him, and all he can do is tell me he loves me (but he doesnt do this unless i say it first) he is awlays telling people our business and his ex wife always seems to be in the know about everything. is he having an affair? please help
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (31 March 2009):
 I cannot tell you if your husband is cheating, I can tell your marriage isn't happy at the moment though! Sex every day is not an index of marital happiness and it seems like you are doing a lot of running for a relationship to a man you are married to. Usually in a marriage you should be comfortable with each other and be able to talk to each other about everything - well that is the ideal in my opinion. I suggest you sit down and talk to him, rather than asking us for advice. I think if his eyes wander onto other girls then it is disrespectful to you as his wife and I would be offended if my husband did that. You have to tell him how you feel rather than leaving all these things to fester.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): He is my husband, sorry i never made myself very clear.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 I'm confused, is he your husband or are just dating him?
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