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writes:Ok so I really like this guy and have for a while. After becoming friends and months of me wanting him we began dating. Everything was going great at first and no problems at all. Then we slept together. I wanted to wait (We have only been dating for a week) but the passion just took over. He seemed like he enjoyed it but he hasnt called all day. I have tried getting in touch with him and I get no response. My questions are....Should I give up? Should I wait it out and see if he has a good excuse? I am really confused and could really use some advise. Thanks =)
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Don't get too uptight about losing him until at least another whole day goes by without hearing from him.
If he hasn't called or something by tomorrow night, go ahead and call him one time. Leave a message if he doesn't pick up.
If he still won't call back after that, then he's not interested.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): You've been trying to contact him and get no response? How many times have you tried calling him, wow. This type of neediness and obsessiveness will kill any relationship before it even starts. Stop contacting him and if he doesn't contact you within a couple of days, you either scared him off or he wasn't too interested to begin with.Since you only dated him a week, you didn't really give yourself much of a chance to see if he was interested in more than just sex.
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reader, Yos  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 "He hasn't called all day".
So you slept with him last night?
Give it some time. He might take a few days to call back, even if he's interested in a relationship. But if he doesn't after 4-5 days or a week, then it's pretty likely he's not really interested and just wanted sex.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 you gave it up too early you should learn from this mistake an move on.x
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