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writes: Hey all, How are you supposed to know who you can trust, I mean men. The ones I know are very good at making me believe that they are friends until I find out once it's too late and they have completely humiliated me. I don't like having people in my life that don't need to be in it and try to be careful who I trust, I'm honest with them but I fall for it every time.. and I'm sick and tired of it. It's not just men, the girls at work, you hear it on break, someone's done this wrong or said that, and unless you're in the "CLICK" you really don't stand a chance, if I phone in to say I've overslept I get moaned about but a girl in the click does it and they say "BLESS HER" AND GO STEADY. How do these people get away with so much even if you're great at your job, unless your face fits you might as well not have a clue what you're doing. I live on an estate and people think up some of the best scandals to explain some of the goings on in someone elses home. It's almost funny.. BUT it's all too much. What is wrong with people? Why do they have to make you feel like a complete useless waste of time freak? I am far from perfect, I know this. But why is it human nature to rip you to shreads for your mistakes, let someone in the click take the credit for your hard work and be in the company of men who are having a right laugh at your expense while you believe they are truly not just after one thing. Sorry but thanx xx
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 Okay, who declared this to to be whiner's day on Dear Cupid? Jeeze Louise, life isn't fair, men are pigs, and beautiful women suck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): I know how you feel. I always have felt like an outsider freak. I try to be as nice as I can without being a total doormat, but it's not easy. In my opinion, people step on other people in order to make themselves feel more powerful, which tells me that they have low self esteem. When I think of them that way, it makes me pity them, and I know that I'm not the problem. They are just sad, insecure, confused, lost shells of human beings who can't see the humanity we all share - they just see a social caste system. They are not worth your worry. Just keep being yourself and show them what real self esteem looks like. You will scare the crap out of them!
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