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writes:I've decided to come out now (at least on here), but me and my cousins around chirstmas ended up having sex for the first time, and then again about a month and a half ago. Now before you all get going on how it's wrong and illegal... it isn't. It's perfectly legal in the UK - check it up if you don't believe me and we are both 19 so there's no underage stuff to worry about.I have been going up to see her twice a week and it's about an hours drive away from where I live and my parents have noticed me clocking up the miles (as they use my car sometimes too).Now we aren't simply fuck buddies, we do like to go out, have fun, drink together, do stuff, hold hands, cuddle and kiss etc (which tbh is really hard cos she lives with her twin sister - but we do do it every chance we get).I think the twin is getting suspicous with the amount of time we spend together and I'm afraid of what she might say to the rest of the family.Should we come clean to just the twin and try and get her to keep it quiet? Should we not say a word? Or should we tell the entire family and hope everything goes fine?I really like her and she really likes me. I need opinions please.
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reader, appliance  +, writes (23 April 2009):
Personally, I don't see anything wrong with that... but I remember discussing that matter with friends a long time ago, and some people think it's wrong, others not. Your family might not react very well to the news, and I think you're both aware of that. If the twin is suspicious right now, I think you should tell her about it. Even if she doesn't like the fact that her sister is going out with her cousin. At least, she might not it to the rest of the family. And if they have to react in a bad way, it's at least better if your girlfriend and you the ones to inform them. It's often worse when we learn things from other people.
Many cousins go out together. It's not uncommon. Not sure if they can have kids though, or if the kids might have some infirmity, or mental problem, etc. You might want to check that out when you'll get there :) Otherwise, IMHO there's nothing wrong!
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reader, Ricky1989 +, writes (1 April 2009):
Ricky1989 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionShes my first cousin - I know it is frowned upon by most people but it is perfectly legal in the UK and we are being safe.
I did try staying away but it only lasted 2 weeks and I just ended up going back.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): If i were you I would look for another person to be with and stay away from both cousins. twins are very very close. sometimes they even think alike. I think if you tell your family or anyone they are going to go crazy on you and that cousin. by the way how close cousin is she to you.
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reader, Ricky1989 +, writes (1 April 2009):
Ricky1989 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI just relised the start says at the start "but me and my cousins around chirstmas"....i just want to say it was only 1 of them
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