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30-35,
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writes:I think I have convinced myself that I like my best friend's boyfriend but in reality I genuinely like this other boy. I think it is more to do with that fact that I like attention and all I'm doing is messing with people's heads to get it... I can't stop, I don't feel terrible that I make a point of spending more time with him than her and I know I should because she's my best friend, I do honestly love her a lot and I'm an extremely loyal friend with no intentions to hurt her, it seems as though she hasn't even noticed though... they don't spend much time together but I know if she was to tell me she's think of ending it I would encourage her NOT to. So I cannot work out why I feel the need to do this, it's as though I don't want to see her happy.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (1 April 2009):
 i'm sure most people feel like this at some stage, its great that you have a clear mind about whats going on though! you know there is a problem so simply put your friends boyfriend to the back of your mind and keep busy! maybe get a boyfriend yourself? friends will always be there for you when the worst happens so it would be a shame for you to fall out with your friend over this. i would keep this issue to yourself as your friend may not be as understanding of your situation. definatly keep busy and support your friend. x
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