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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own...Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well of course. A while later we shared a kiss, which was great... Hung out a few other times.....The last time we hung out was just over a week ago, let's say there was a bit of passionate kissing. We are constantely texting in between too...Now..... Whats confusing?? Anytime I saw her I had to ask to see her, like she'd constantly moan of being lonely and moan of being bored. Then I'd ask her, Always said yes when I have asked. Get on very well when with her, but never get feedback on what she thought about our time... I find usually people tell each other what they thought of the night, I like this, I liked that, etc....Couple days ago she fabricated an argument with me, and was telling me to "fuck off" basically. (this is through texts by the way). She was being nice and all of a sudden turned on me... So after she admitted she had no reason to argue with me and that she was sorry.. I asked what's wrong?She claims that I confuse her and she doesn't know how much she likes me or how little. It's not exactly how she wanted to say this apparently, but her best effort to explain was, every other man she can "read", but me, I'm different and I'm frustrating, she doesn't know what to say or how to act (I said be yourself, but her answer was she knows that, she just can't put into words whats in her head), she even said that sometimes she thinks I'm being confusing on purpose sometimes. But I'm only confusing in person...I really don't mean to be confusing. Any explanations would be very helpful.
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 I think maybe you could probably ask her how she liked the date and it wouldnt be confusing .Also you could maybe let her ask you to come over and hang out sometimes this way it would make her feel as if she is kinda in control of where the relationship is going.Also you might let her know that you Like here and maybe you are a wee bit confused on how or where things are going .Just over all take your time back off a little and then maybe it will give her time to sort things out and be more open with how she feels about you all dating and the things you do...........Good Luck XXXXX
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