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writes:Please help me, I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin. He is two years older than me and we met and mine and his step grandfather's wedding. We really hit it off and shortly after that he came down and stayed with me for a while. I loved it and a few things happend but I know that he 'doesn't know' if he wants anything to happen between us. He says he has strong feelings for me though, I don't know if what I feel is wrong. Please help?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): I am in a similar situation.I am in love with my mum's cousin !.I have been for a few years !.He used to live near me,but then he moved away three years ago.I have sent him messages sometimes,asking him to meet up,but he hasnt responded.I have read on his facebook page that he is coming up here this week !.He is meeting some of his friends while he is here.I really want to see him,and i would like to tell him how i feel,but since he hasnt responded before,i dont know if i should ask him.He has spoke to me before online,but only a couple of times ,that was when he sent me a message first,and it wasnt for long.Looking at his facebook page makes me love him even more,but it hurts that he doesnt live here now,and that i havent been able to talk about this with him.
I love him to bits,and it breaks my heart !.
At least some things have happened with you and your cousin.Do you have any ideas on what i can do with mine ?.
My advice to you is that if you want to be with him you should go for it !.If not,you might spend years regretting nothing happening,like i have so far.I wish i had told mine sooner.I'm not sure if he has a girlfriend or not now,but i would still like to tell him anyway.Life's too short not to go for what you want.
Last time i saw him,he bought me a drink,asked if i had a boyfriend,and wanted me to sneak to his house without telling family,but i didnt go because i was worried about getting caught.I regret not going now.I'm not sure if he liked me or not,do you think it sounds like he did ?.I'm not sure if he still would now,but i still feel the same for him.
Good luck to you.Where are you from ?.In the U.K,it is legal to go out with a cousin,or a " sort of " cousin.I'm from the U.K.
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