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writes:I am 20 years old, turning 21 in a month and I have never been in a real relationship yet. I feel like a loser because of that and the closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but he was sleeping with another girl behind my back. I still talk to him but only because I think thats all I will ever get. He treated me badly and still does, only talking to me if he wants me to sleep over.I am also a full-time university student and any extra time I have, I spend with my close friends to make sure we stay in touch.Is there ever a chance for a relationship for me or am I incapable of one?
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reader, Legioness  +, writes (1 April 2009):
 Babes, don't feel like a loser cos you're not, ok? And yes you are capable of a relationship, everyone is! It's just a matter of getting out there and patience. When you see your mates what do you do? Maybe you should try heading out to a nice bar with them or some other type of place where the men are quantities? But remember- nice place, nice guys! Or even guys at your uni? Surely you must be spoilt for choice there! All it takes is a bit of mingling. Even if you just strike up conversation and make some new guy friends, it's certainly heading in the right direction :) x
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