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writes:My boyfriend who I am totally in love with and have been for the past 4 years has moved to work in London for two months and I live in Liverpool.Here's the problem - he wants me to perform for him on webcam the way I do when in the bedroom and he will performs for me as well. Now this might not seem as a big deal but I feel so uncomfortable with showing myself on webcam, also I have honestly never done anything to myself ever!My boyfriend was my first as I was his. We have experimented but I have never done anything to myself. I wanna please him while he's so far away but I don't know what to do.Please I need help to get over my fear of webcam and also what can I do over it to please him? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): The risk you're taking is that he records the session. There are thousands of webcam sessions out there for viewing -- from break-ups, from stolen computers, whatever. IMHO you're very right to be afraid of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): I faced this when I went to uni and there was 200+ miles between me and my bf. Maybe start off on the phone, without the webcam and get used to talking dirty, make sure you're relaxed and not worried about other people walking in or hearing you. Once you're cool with that, you guys don't have to use the webcam for sex stuff straight away but get used to being on screen and take it from there, when your both in the mood.
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