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*CantThinkOfAScreenName
writes:heres the problem. ive met this boy that is totaly perfect for me. hes everything id ever want and id love to meet him and get to know him even more than i already do. but this is where it gets complicated one of these girls from my school, i wouldnt call her my friend, we say hi and stuff cos shes n some of my classes but we barely talk other than that. but being me i care too much about her feelings. she likes this guy too and she did before i met him. i didnt realise she even knew him when i first starting talking to him. and ive been trying and trying not to like him for her sake. but recently hes told me that he likes me and that he doesnt like her, hes even told her that. yet she still tries, even though she has about 3 other guys liking her. all my friends said to me to take my chance because ive been single and messed about for nearly a year now by guys who just arnt right for me. what should i do, give him up and spare her feelings, or talk to her about it, see if she is okay and then meet up with him?? pleasee helpp :( Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): ScreenName, You are under no obligation to choose your friends because of anyone else. You are not going to help this other girl by not being friends with this boy. Don't you think he has his own say in the matter? I remember being in such a situation in school, though I was a bit older. A girl I really wanted to be close with was being stand-offish because one of her "friends" had some "thing" for me. I did not care for her friend that way. I did not really even like her much. So, it was very frustrating and I finally just got angry with them both and moved on.
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