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writes:Me And My BoyfriendGod, we argue all the time and when hesin a bad mood i have a habit on ringing himto see if hes ok over and over and he gets angry but i dont even fone him that much and it just feels like hes going off me he doesnt answer his fone most days he always used to tho and hes going out with his mates much more ? and whenever i try to comfront him about how i feel he says somthing nasty like ow your so dumb and gets angry with me thinking these things. WHATT SHOULDD II DOO GUYS? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cherie, +, writes (1 April 2009):
Cherie, is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyouu Guys really good Ideas
i did let him get on with it once and he came running back to me , so i might just do that for now on, i will tell you how it goes ! xx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 March 2009):
Well he may have got annoyed at you. Especially if he asked you and you carried on.
Give him some time and STOP CALLING.
Just send him a text and then wait for a reply if you have to do something.
Show him you can be a cool girlfriend and not a clingy problem he has to deal with.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): Wow, if you were 17 i would think that you are my best friend. If he is quiet for more than one minute, she hounds him with phone calls, texts, e-mails etc asking him whats wrong, and as an outsider you can see that is really going to have an enourmous strain on their relationship. Amongst the phone calls she gives him, i get one every now and again with the same old story 'he wont answer me... he is in a mood with me... etc' and it gets really annying because 10 seconds later she will phone me back and say 'oh it's okay he just lost his phone'. In my opinion, i think you should give him some space, and if he ends up getting in a mood for some reason, let him have time to be annoyed by himself. He shouldn't say the nasty things that he says but i think he may say it because he is frustrated.Again, let him have some space, and go back to the girl that he liked before you guys started going out. Be young and have fun =]Good Luck and let me know how it goes xox
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reader, minnie_me  +, writes (31 March 2009):
ok so basically it sounds like your boyfrend is loosing interest i could be wrong but that is what it sounds like.of course there could be other reasons he might just have stuff on his mind and need some space.At the end of the day you need to decide if you can carry on this relationship when your not getting any attention (wel hardly any), if you cant then i would suggest talking to him again and explaining how you feel if he doesnt listen this time you mite want to consider dumping him. Good luck with everything!
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