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writes:Hi everyone,It's not so much a relationship, dating, love or sex question, but i just signed up and not sure how to change topic subjects, if you can.Before you do start to read, i am 20 years old from North-West England. This question is purely asking the people on this website there views, advice. If you do want to chat you can message me. But anyways lets begin...Right, the thing is, i assume i have what they call a fetish, in this case a boot fetish, or i am just into domination? If i looked at a woman my age i would probably just focus on her boots and feet. I would get excited (very easily), by licking/kissing her boots (inclding the bottoms), whether they were muddy, just normal dirt or if they were clean, i would happily do it if she had been walking round in them all day. That isnt really all of it, thats the main one. But i seem to be interested in alot more 'fetishes', such as the humiliation side of it to name another.I know there are websites for this sort of thing and 'Mistresses' you can visit but i am not interested in a mistress/dungeon scene. I know some people would be thinking either i am wierd or 'dude, just get a gilfriend'. But you see i like to be commitment free, the whole girlfriend thing isnt interesting me at the moment, plus i wouldnt know where to begin.I wouldnt mind actually doing this with a lady around my age and area, casualy in her home or whatever. are there any websites with same-minded people as me, with people who would like to meet up etc?But basically, what i would like to ask, how common is this? what do women think of this? Or am i just a wierd person? Should i try and find a women and persue my...fetishes, or let it go. What do you think?Thanks for taking the time to read this poeple, any advice/replies are much appreciated.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): Wow, how did this go from boot fetish to dominatrix?
I'd say go to a boot store, the ones that sell the thigh-high, shiny black leather kind, and see what 'woman' are buying... ;)
Although, usually women like a man to want the whole package...so that means spending time together, and the boyfriend/girlfriend life. It's really not so bad you know:) It feels good to be cared about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone. Yes i have thought about visiting a mistress/dominatrix or so, but problems are;1) They cost alot of money.2) I'm not sure about being stripped naked, some mistresses tie you up etc first dont they?3)There isnt many mistresses/dominatrix's around my area. Most of them are in Liverpool and Manchester which is a good train journey away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNot sure if the first went through. So i will thank you again GinsendMewo for replying and giving me that website. I have posted on that website. see where it goes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello GinsendMeow, i thought craigslist.org was for just businesses etc. Cheers for your reply and i will check it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): There are public personal ad web sites that allow you to post or search for people that can fulfill such a fantasy. One such web site is Craigslist.org. It is broken up into countries and then categories with sub-categories.Look into the Personals section and you may find what you're looking for or someone may find you.
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