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writes:Ok there is this guy in my class that i never knew he existed until we were put in a group together. We started emailing each other back and forth. We finally went out on a date, it was awkward and I wasn't sure if he was feeling it let alone me. Well after the date I asked him and he thought I wasn't into it. Well after everything I found myself kinda pursuing him more so to speak. He wasn't responding like how I wanted to so i lied and said that i wasn't sexually attracted to him so now we could be friends. And he ended up saying you weren't my type anyways. Well after that him and I haven't really spoken to each other and I feel bad that now we don't even speak. Well I was wondering if it would make any sense to send a myspace or email message asking to start over again. All my friends tell me to just leave it alone but it bothers me so much when I see him in class and we do not speak.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): well i don't think so there is any harm in doing that..at least u don't have anything to lose so go ahead..and be honest but with self respect
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reader, Uncle Chaos  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 Without knowing the guy, I can’t say for sure but I’m guessing what you've done here is bruised his ego.
As much as he won’t admit to it, by saying you don’t find him sexually attractive you’ve hurt his feelings.
The thing that catches my eye though is that you’ve already lied to him. And though you have your reasons for this, I’m not so sure that being in a relationship is such a good idea.
You’ve been on a date, and you didn’t click. You’ve already lied to him; maybe it’s time to move on...
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