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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:We broke up because he is playing around!! He told me he loved me and would never break up with me and leave me and he'll never love any another girl. I loved him so much but lately we've been fighting so much because he's lying to other girls and tells them I love you and all that, now he told me he wants an open relationship, I said WHAT?! You know something, you're free, we are not together any more! Sure, before this one he asked for a temporary break up and I said all right. Two days and he came back to me running and asked me to forgive him and be together again, I said of course baby and before he tried a lot to break up but he couldn't but now after few fights he doesn't want to get back to me and I miss him like hell.He left me before for my friend and I asked him in our last break up why did you get back to me if you didn't love me? he said I'm a liar, I'm a cheater, a player, I'm a bastard, I'm a son of bitch, I'm everything wrong!! and when I'm a liar that means I didn't love you!! I was like so wtf!! I cried, I felt bad! I really dunno what to do cuz the past 2 months we keep fighting all the time I miss him to death and I don't know what to do, can anyone help me please!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2009): First let me say I'm sorry for what you are going through. Then I have to ask you to read your letter. Do you see the pattern there? When he finds something he wants he starts the fights so you two will break up (a reason) then he goes and has this other girl guilt free. Thats not techniqaly cheating thats typical immature @##hole behavior. You are smart I can see that. But honey he is using you and you keep taking him back. He says he is sorry blah blah blah... This type of behavior is abusive to you and it hurts you on more than just one level. Please for your sake let him go, don't take him back. I promise there are better houses out there and some come with an ocean view.
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