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writes:My boyfriend and I are going our separate ways on Friday night..hanging out with friends that we haven't seen in such a looong time. We do this every now and then. Should there be an agreement between both of us? We've been dating for over (2) months. For example: Call me when you leave, get home? Or even better..if it's not too late stop by his place so we could end the night together.;) On the other hand, make him miss the fact that I'm not with him that night and wait till the next day?And I trust him 100% So, we won't be bugging each other while we're out with friends.:) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): How about "have a great time" and leave it at that. Anything else sounds like he has to check in with you. You trust him so let him go out without having to report back to you or be home at a certain time so he doesn't upset you.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 March 2009):
Flippin' Heck you are putting far too much thought into this.
Just go out have lots and lots of fun and see each other the next day.
If you try and plan it can come across as really clingy so just relax.
You don't need a plan for this so play it by ear.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, SoftlyCaress  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 I think its not a bad thing to let each other know you made it home safe but at the same time that is the only time I would call and touch basis. you arent married and you dont own each other it is a good thing to be away from each other they say absence makes the heart grow fonder .And as long as you 2 trust each other there is no reason to ring each others phone off the hook .Go ahead Enjoy your night and let him do the same .if you spend every waken moment together it will put such a strain on your relationship Just remember to be faithful to one another .....XXXXXXX Good Luck and Have Fun
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