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reader, Danii-N-Dale  +, writes (2 April 2009):
Danii-N-Dale is verified as being by the original poster of the question Me and my boyfriend aint ready for sex at all yet and my mum dosent believe this me and my boyfriend are in love i have been in love with him for years but then we were just friends and now were together it is great and we are so close We are not even thinking about sex yet and the situation is getting etter with my mum as i have took the advise given so im alot happier Thank you all so much xx
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reader, Ms Confused  +, writes (1 April 2009):
Well sweety your only 13 and been going with this boy for 4 weeks, thats not that long so how are you two in love and even thinking about sex? But no matter what your mom shouldnt make you choose like that. Maybe if you sit down and talk to her face to face and explain to her how much you LIKE your boyfriend and would love for her to respect that and be there for you when your going to need her the most (like talking about sex) and go from there. Dont be rude about it but tell her that you are going to have to make your own mistakes and learn from it; how else will you learn you kno? but good luck with everything! =)
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reader, Danii-N-Dale +, writes (1 April 2009):
Danii-N-Dale is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think ill leave it its unhelpful
and you dont no the full story i needed help thats why i posted the question
And it may only been 4 weeks but we have been friends for years and i love him
Thanx anyway i suppose x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (1 April 2009):
 I don't give advice to please I call it like I see it. You are 13 and been with your boyfriend for only 4 weeks. I've been a mother to two 13 year old girls and I know exactly what that's like. I stand by my answer. Take it or leave it.
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reader, Danii-N-Dale +, writes (1 April 2009):
Danii-N-Dale is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much Kellyxxx your advise really helped
But eyeswideopen i am not being a drama queen i asked
a question i needed help with which this site is for
i didnt like your responce
and satindesire thanx x
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 March 2009):
Sorry but at 13 years old and only 4 weeks you can't possibly be having a "serious" relationship with anybody. Quit being the drama queen and listen to your mother.
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (31 March 2009):
 your mum should not have made you choose. maybe if you act less serious then she wont be as bothered about your relationship. write her a letter saying that you are not stupid and she should trust you when it comes to boys and sex. tell her that you know that she's looking after you but you need independance to make mistakes and learn from them. she is not going to be around forever and if she makes the decisions all of the time then how are you going to be able to make them on your own? ask her how she got her knowledge? i bet she had to make mistakes! tell her you need space to grow up and when you need her you will come to her. not all 13year olds come home pregnant!! x
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