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writes:My boyfriend keeps suggesting oral sex, I have never done it before and jusr wondered when you give a blow-job, this sounds silly, is it just the fact of putting him in you mouth, what do you do with your tongue.
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reader, NightLad  +, writes (1 April 2009):
 "No teeth" Amen sister.And the best way to avoid them is to gently press your lips against your teeth, like you are pretending to be an old toothless person. Don't overdo it to the point that your lips go into your mouth, but just so that your teeth are slightly tucked under the inner flesh of your lips. Practice makes perfect. Got any bananas?What to do with your tongue? Use it! Jessica04 (who deserves a 5 star review for that answer, I hope you are all voting!) put it beautifully.And don't be afraid to ask him to wash first. Hygiene is something that often gets overlooked when anxious. Oh, and if your man gets too demanding or forceful (ears are not handles!) don’t be afraid to tell him to back off... you are in the driver’s seat now!And remember, sex is like Chinese food; it isn't over until you BOTH get your fortune cookie. Enjoy!
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reader, keepitreal03  +, writes (31 March 2009):
Well before u do this make sure u can trust that he's only having sex with u because u can get many stds from oral sex. Even if his penis looks normal it doesn't mean he's std free. U don't wanna get something u can't get rid of. Be safe.
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reader, jessica04  +, writes (31 March 2009):
 Think of when you have a popcicle, and you put the whole thing in your mouth, your tongue is just pressed down by it.
When you get a little more comfortable, simply slide your ongue around a little bit. Since his penis will be taking up most of the room in your mouth, you won't be expected to be able to do flips with it. To me, giving oral is like one really big lick, since your tongue is constantly touching it.
When you slide your mouth back up to the tip, you can swirl your tongue around the head of his penis and gently lick it and play with it with your tongue. Just no teeth.
Ask him to very gently guide your head so you get the feeling for the rhythm that is most enjoyable for him. Just relax, breathe, and have fun!
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