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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don't feel I'm lying to him. His older brother has a girlfriend, and our stupid kissing would not even qualify as a fling, so I didn't ever bring it up.Now I can't get his brother out of my head. I'm thinking of him sexually and I'm thinking of him every day. What the hell is going on with me? How can I control this stupid fantasy????
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 March 2009):
You have to think long and hard.
Are you really really in love with your boyfriend, or is he your comfy safety net when you really want to be single and free?
It's very possible that you love your boyfriend and you just need to snap out of this silly crush and get on with life. Just give yourself a slap and think about him being an arse and doing disgusting unattractive things.
But this could be a symptom that you want to move away from both these guys and enjoy the drama and excitement of single life.
Good Luck!! xx
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