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writes:Does the majority of women like or dislike anal sex... and would a woman leave her man because of it??
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): I don't reallly want to say too much about it..
So number 1-i prefer anal, with stimulation in other areas..
And number 2-Why would i break up with a guy??? .. Because he did it?? Because he didn't like it?? ...
Personally either way doesn't bother me..
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): My boyfriend and I recently tried anal sex and I hated it. It was not my first time doing it but it was our first time. I never like it in the past but it is something that he really wanted to do so I thought I would try it for him. I made him stop as soon as he got past the second sphincter. It hurt so badly that I was in tears.
He was kind and stopped when I told him to but he wanted to try again and I was not ready. In fact I am pretty sure that I never want to do it again but I know that he does. If he can't live without it, then we will be done. I want someone to like me more than a sex act and if they don't then they are not worth my time and energy. I am better than that and deserve more.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 December 2009): I am a woman and i love anal sex, as long as my partner takes some time to prepare me so i don't hurt.
Anal sex feels good because there are a lot of nerve endings in and around the anus, some of which signal the brain to 'reward' you with good feelings when stimulated. The rectum also shares a wall with the vagina, and lots of sexual nerves are clustered there.
So i believe that every healthy woman can enjoy anal sex as long as she is open to try it and as long as her man is not.. in a hurry... ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 September 2009): I can't belive the majority like it.As for a woman leaving her man because he asks for it?It depends on how many times he asks... If it's once and she says no, no problem. If he's asked before, and she said no, and he asks repeatedly, it's a sign that he doesn't respect her wishes and wants her to compromise.Sometimes lovers should be willing to try new things and be giving - however, I can see that in this case, some women are going to draw the line and it's NO FOREVER, don't ask again...Other's may be willing to try it once if they belive that they can trust their man. Done carefully, it can be great (for both the guy and the woman!), done otherwise it can be really bad. If the woman agrees but is scared it will NOT be a good experience as she will not be able to relax, and pain will follow...
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2009): I have to belive that the majority (51% or more women) dislike anal, however, I have to belive that the number that like it is somewhere between 30% and 50%... so there are plenty that do.Enjoying anal sex requires that you're in a very secure relationship and that you trust your partner - A LOT! about 1 in 3 of the girls I've been with enjoyed anal, and they REALLY enjoyed it, the others wouldn't even think of it.
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reader, NightLad  +, writes (1 April 2009):
 In a recent survey of 100,000 women, Redbook Magazine found that 42% of women had tried anal sex once, and, for 2%, anal sex was an "important part" of their sexual relationships.But as with all forms of sexual practices between couples, it very much depends on the individual.And if you do meet Ms. Right, and she agrees to give you a back-door pass, don't be shocked if she may have a kinky little sexual quirk she expects you to repay her with. ;)Good sex is a two way street, tiger.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 March 2009):
I think if I were serious about a guy and wanted to be with him for life and he had a thing about anal sex then I may rethink our relationship.
It's just not something I could ever compromise on.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): I think most women don't like it. There are a few who love it, but generally it's an experiment, something extra once in a while, or something that never happens at all.
I think that a woman might leave a man if she didn't want to do it and he forced her, or made her feel bad about not wanting to. If a guy only wanted anal sex all the time, I would seriously give that guy a skip.
The only way you will know if a woman likes it or not is to ask her! :)
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