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anonymous
writes:I am friends with a bloke, at first he was full on wanting to meet someone for a relationship. I have know him for a few months now the problems that he had have been sorted with the exception of his ex using his child to see him.He calls and texts every day and has even stayed at my place for several nights. We cuddle and get on really well but I just dont know where things are going. I asked him if he thought we would ever be more than friends and he replied saying how great I am, how similar we are, how he enjoys getting to know me, how easy I am to talk to but he feels guarded because of his ex. He has got feelings for me but didnt really tell me if he wanted to be more than friends.His comments were nice and I am flattered but I still dont know how he feels.Do I take a step back and see how things progress and be happy that I have found such a good friend? Or give up on him and try to distance myself so I dont get my feelings trampled on because he doesnt want that kind of relationship....
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): I think he was pretty clear about having feelings for you but not enough to make a go of it. Things can't really progress when he has told you that they aren't going to. Yeah, your feelings will get trampled on if you expect anything more than a friendship with no strings attached sex. If you want a relationship you'll have to find it elsewhere.
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