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writes:Wondering what the deal with X's that make it super hard for you to date ? Ok let me clear it up her for you. Me and my X have not been together for about 6 months now and still to this day she is posting stuff about me an how I hurt her and how what we had was good till I screwed it up. Ok I am not sure why she is doing what she is doing she likes to get a hold of all my e mails and contact every and any female that has even said hello to me. She would e mail them and tell them all sorts of items that would make them question me as a whole ? I am not understanding whats going on here in her head ? I have spoken to her and she says she is in love with me but when we broke up she dated and i waited like a fool. i mean i waited around and told her how much I loved her and missed hr even knowing she was out and about with another guy. ( yes i am a dipshit ) but when she speaks to any of the females i have been talking to she says to them she is done with me and that they can have me that the reason she contacted them was to warn them about me. Please help me get a grip or give me some tips on how to stop her ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2009): You have to cut her out of your life completely. You are in charge of you, she isnt. If I am not mistaken, your "EX" is on here posting that the two of you have started this new and wonderful life together. Get a restraining order, move, do what you have to do. Stop allowing her access to your life. If you give her the power, she will screw up your possible relationships and you will never be able to be happy and move on. You have to cut her out, cold turkey. Obviously trying to be nice about it isnt working!
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reader, Helpful_In_Ohio +, writes (8 April 2009):
Helpful_In_Ohio is verified as being by the original poster of the question need more help with this can anyone help me or know of anyone that has gone thru this ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2009): Your ex sounds like a nightmare. I have dealt with her kind before and she won't stop it. You need to cut her out of your life entirely or she is going to ruin any future relationship you might have.
Change your email account, close the other one...if you don't know how look in the help section and it should explain how to get rid of the account permanently, sometimes it takes up to 90 days to do so.
Then do not ever send her an email or foward her one from your new account....she won't be able to get it unless someone gives it to her.
What she is doing is psycho and immature......I filed harassment charges against my boyfriend's ex for sending me emails and texts and voice mails about him, and she did this off an on for the two years that we dated! It took me that long to get the nerve up to do it, but she deserves it because she was always trying to break us up and she told the worst lies and I have heard her say things to him that I know she twisted around. She has a personality disorder and I guess that is part of her disorder to do that kind of thing to people....she even admits that she likes to "get even" in one of her emails to me about him.
So don't put up with it, get rid of her, I don't care how bad you feel about it, get rid of her for good, out of your life!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (31 March 2009):
Well how is she getting hold of your emails????
Stop her from doing that and cut contact.
Get a completely new email account, delete her from all your networking sites and move on.
Good Luck!! xx
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