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*msy101
writes:HiMe and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back together again and everything will be great. We have such a laugh when we are together. And I love him very much hense why I put up with his moods. The last time we split up was last year, we were apart for about 6 weeks and in that 6 weeks he booked a holiday to Mexico for 2 weeks. We got back together about 4 weeks or so before he went and while he was on holiday he had decided that it wasn't going to work between us and sent me a text message the day before our year anniversary saying that it wasn't going to work, he was still in Mexico when he did this. He came back 2 days later and we met up he was very very drunk and said that he had met someone else and was gonna try and make ago of things with her. Anyway apprantly he decided that he had made a huge mistake and when I got back to work I avoided him like the plage, and then he came and apologised and we went out for a drink and talked everything through. His sister has never liked me and that has always come between us and it upset him the fact she was never prepared to make an effort with me when I stayed at his on weekends as they live together it was difficult and I never felt comfortable.Over the last few weeks i have realised how much I do love him and want to be with him...Now we have told people we are back together, I told my mum and she went mental and told me to move out. I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment, I am happy with him, and miss him when I am not with him. Please Help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2009): ummmmmm if you really do like the guy and his sister is coming between you two then you should try and talk it through with her.... or maybe just dont do things that she doesnt like to see you do!!! act like you like her and maybe like that, you will soon bond!!!!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (31 March 2009):
You could start by getting some self respect.
Is this all you really think you deserve?
A guy that is there when he can be arsed but just dumps you when he fancies shagging someone else guilt free, then rolls back to you because he knows you're his doormat and you'll take it.
Do you think he honestly has any respect for you?
Your mum is probably sick of seeing you in tears ALL THE TIME and then seeing you go skipping back to the guy who clicks his fingers and then treats you like something off the bottom of his shoe when he loses interest again. What is she supposed to do?
Good Luck!! xx
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