Should we end things until he gets over his need to "experience" life?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My bf has commitment issues but we've naturally become more serious about each other. I am a few years older and we met when he was less than 6 months out of school, living on his own and into his first job. He says how he feels he 'should' be focusing on his career and building on experiencing the adult world/relationships, then always wants to be with/see/talk to me, which means he always contradicts his words and actions.

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