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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:I just found out today that my husband deleted the one guy I had on my myspace profile. My husband has women on his and one ex, yet the second I add a male on mine, he has to be deleted instantly. It wouldn't bug me so much, except he writes to these women and tells them they are attractive and gets pictures of them naked sent to him. I never talked to this guy, I added him because I knew him from school, but I never once wrote to him (or told him he was good-looking). Is this a double standard? If so, what should I do? Should I say that he needs to delete ALL his women from his profile, becuase I can't have ONE man on mine or should I just let it go? I feel like I am the most unattractive woman there is (I also am pregnant and have gained around 30 pounds), I feel like if I had never gotten pregnant than he wouldn't be looking for "pretties" on the internet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): Honestly, he sounds like he's treating you like he's trying to claim the control in this relationship. Don't let him walk all over you!
There are so many petty retorts and revenges here- but they would all just dig a deeper hole! Before this all just ends in stalemate you really need to talk to him maturely about all this.
If I'm honest, his behaviour doesn't sound like he's ready to settle down, or like he has much respect for you. It might be worth having a good heart to heart as to whether he really wants to be in this relationship at all. It’s better to know now rather than later if he doesn't -and don't let him stay around just to treat you like a doormat.
If you are reaching stalemate with this juvenile, maybe couples counselling would help?
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