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writes:I've known this girl (girl-1) for 2 years. We met and I was obviously into her, and she could tell. We hung out a lot but I was stuck in the friend zone even after trying to ask her out and getting denied 3 times. Finally I decided I had to just remain her friend and look for someone else. I met another girl (girl-2) and we dated for about a month. We were really into each other but I still deeply enjoyed hanging out with girl-1. Then one night girl-1 got drunk and told me she really liked me and missed me and wanted to be my girlfriend. I was a little bit drunk too and we spent the night together. We didn't do anything except cuddling. Girl-2 found out about this and we broke up. I've realised that I really love girl-1 but I don't know if she really feels the same way. Since that night she's been acting more interested in dating me but she says I'm too easy, what should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys. and thanks citic101 I've actually been learning how to make her "chase me" cause she's into that. . . . .and it's workin on other ladies too
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reader, citic101  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 A month after you get a girlfriend friend 1 gets drunk and comes onto you. sounds like friend one didn't want you much until someone else came and got you. Then friend 1 perhaps thought " hey this guy is boyfriend material" but how long will you stay "boyfriend material" since you have dumped girlfriend 2 ? people want what they cant have, makes life a little more spicy." treat them mean to keep them keen" its an oldie but a goldie !
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (30 June 2009):
 First things first, are you 'too easy'? If so, this is a big turn off. People who are projected as this label are not seen as the dating type, so if you are, you are going to have to prove yourself.I have seen guys go from girl to girl, and then a girl comes into there life, and they fall in love and he settles down, and vice versa.If she is into you, then show that you are into her, buy her flowers, take her out to nice places. Have a deep conversation about your feelings toward her. Don't flirt with any other girls. Tell your friends and her friends that your feelings for her are real. This may make somebody put in a good word for you that you are serious about this girl.But one thing you shouldn't do is sleep with her. If you guys do end up dating in the long run - make sure you wait a while. Don't jump into bed with her after the first few dates because then you will have proved her point.Enough said.Take carexxx
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